When it comes to university dating, there is no single way to do it. These are great times to experiment, learn, and grow. You can count on me to offer useful advice, no matter whether you’re looking for casual dating or serious relationships.

1. Don’t disconnect from the rest of the world when you begin dating.

Although it is fine to be in a committed relationship with someone, you can often neglect quality time with your family and friends. There are many things to do at university so it is important to learn how to balance your time.

If you don’t settle down quickly, you could miss out on many opportunities. Even if you’re in a relationship, it is important to keep in touch with family and friends who love you.

2. Find a partner who makes you happy

Over the course of a few months, university is a period in our lives that can make huge changes to our character. Some couples may also find themselves changing and becoming different. It is important to be open to new ideas, even if they are uncomfortable.

For a lasting relationship, it is important to be honest with yourself. Don’t waste your time with someone who makes your feelings uncomfortable or unhappy.

3. It’s perfectly okay to not stick with your date 24 hours a day

We are all individuals who have the right to live fulfilling and separate lives. Stability and maturity allow for growth and joy in one’s life. A clingy partner can lead to a dysfunctional relationship that will eventually kill the other. I recommend that you allow yourself to grow and have fun with your friends at university.

4. Your love life is not over when a relationship ends.

It’s normal to feel upset about the end of a relationship. You can spend your time listening to sad music, watching movies, or sleeping as much as you like. It is important to view failure as an opportunity and to learn to forgive. This will help you feel happy and free from the pain of a broken relationship. It is not a good idea to rush into a new relationship just to make your ex jealous.

5. Before you get into a relationship, make sure you love yourself.

Self-love is an excellent way to learn at university. In all circumstances, it is important to first fall in love with your self. To feel happy, you don’t need to be liked by anyone.

6. If you don’t like anyone, you don’t need to date.

You don’t have to be in a relationship with someone unless you like them. It is not something you should be doing at university.

Dating can teach you how to love and to compromise, to balance school and relationship, and to be honest with yourself and your thoughts. This is something I believe you will remember in your future.

If you’ve never been in a relationship, don’t rush to get one. Accept your singleness, and let the milestones come naturally.